Let?s face it: we are all very busy and going in so many directions that we forget to connect with the one who means the most to us. Simply taking some time to slow down and have fun is important to build a strong, loving relationship.
Here are a few suggestions to start you thinking about reconnecting with your own lover.
- Take a night, turn off all electronics and talk. We all have very busy lives these days between our two careers and other activities that are demanding our attention. Take one night a week to turn off the TV, our computers and our iPhones, giving our lover the uninterrupted attention they deserve ? this will enrich your relationship tenfold.
- Take dancing lessons. Your lover may not be crazy about taking dancing lessons, but it has been shown to increase a couple?s intimacy. Then, between lessons, practice the dance steps and ignite the passion a little more.
- Cook together in your p.j?s. This will not only make the experience more romantic, but also more fun. Laugh and enjoy the time together and while you are at it, go ahead and feed each other.
- Start gardening together. Pick some items each of you want to grow to help keep both of you interested in working together on this project. Then, when it?s time to weed, enjoy the conversation with each other.
- Read a book together and talk about each chapter as you go. Pick a relationship-building book that you both agree on. After each chapter, sit down and have conversation about what you learned, as well as what each of you would like to change in your relationship.
- Take a weekly walk and hold hands. This will not only give you time together, but it will be good exercise too. It will also increase your endorphins, bringing you closer to one another.
- Schedule a romantic date night to include dinner, dancing, or movie once a week or as often as possible. This will give you and your lover time alone to feel that special desire for each other once again away from your busy schedules. And remember, this does not always have to be an expensive outing!
- Enjoy coffee together in the morning, at least three mornings a week, sitting in bed. This is a great way to connect with each before you start getting too busy with your day.
- Go on a picnic together. No matter if you have to schedule it or just do it spontaneously, it will be time spent together. If you are into cooking, whip up a tasty menu. If that?s not your thing, go to your local market and pick out food together. If time is not on your side, consider doing a picnic in your own backyard. By keeping it low stress, you both will enjoy it more.
- Play a board game, such as Scrabble, with a glass of wine in sexy p.j?s. By each of you wearing sexy pajamas, this will heat the game up and add more fun to it. If the game is Scrabble, to add more fun, try to pick a theme such as places you traveled together, foods you each like or fun activities you do together.
For extra bonus points, here are a couple of ideas: Find a new hobby you both would enjoy or you could schedule a couple?s massage at a local spa.
The key to keeping the excitement in your relationship is to make time for each other every week, if not more frequently. Make sure to keep it low stress for both of you. Don?t forget to make sure you both have fun and laugh a lot!
Patricia ZelmEmmart is a Board Certified Health Counselor, Registered Yoga Instructor and Freelance Writer. Patricia works with clients using the holistic approach, guiding them through nutritional and lifestyle changes that will carry her clients for many healthy years to come. More information about Patricia on her website
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